她也看到有些女人在生活变动或者脆弱时期有了外遇，比如孩子上大学了，或者失业了。她们把出轨看做是变动时期的一种安慰方式。

Another common reason is a cry for help in the marriage. One of Reilly’s patients had an affair, ended it, and then told her husband as a way to point out they were in more trouble than he thought.

另一个常见的原因就是把外遇作为挽救婚姻的诉求。蕾利的一个病人出了轨，然后了断，再用这样的方式告诉她的丈夫，她们的处境比他想象的糟的多。

Reilly says her clinical experience has shown that affairs are almost always caused by problems in the marriage. Therapy, at times, can be helpful to avoid going down that path.

蕾利说临床实践表明外遇通常是由婚姻中出现了问题所致。治疗有时可以帮助她们，避免走向出轨这条路。

"People have affairs because they are looking for something," Reilly says. Although she sees a number of couples grappling with infidelity, "more people come to me [before it happens] because they want to save their marriage."

她还说：人们之所以出轨是因为他们渴求着什么。尽管她看到一些人纠缠于各种不忠行为。但更多的人是在出轨前来找我寻求帮助，因为他们想挽救婚姻。

Accidental or On Purpose

偶然的或者是有意的

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