3 恋爱前要做好调查

This is not just an advice for women but for men too. You have to make a research about him or her. Know his or her past, particularly if the person that you would be meeting has past relationships and if it is possible know the reason of break ups. This would help you in approaching the person once your eyes meet.

这条建议男女都要仔细看。你要对Ta做个调查。了解Ta的过去，特别是当是否对方有恋爱史以及与前任的分手原因。做好事前调查能帮你在你们第一次对视时就能迅速走进Ta的心。

4 在约会之前想好导入问题

Using basic questions on your own will help you visualize how he or she feels or what might be his or her reactions.

自己准备一些问题能够帮你弄明白Ta对你的感觉和想法。

5 有些事情是不该问的This is connected to number 3. There are wrong questions, which are being asked that could be sensitive or might offend the person.This actually happens if we make ourselves too comfortable upon facing them where a disaster on a date itself happens. Relax and be yourself but do not be too close right away.

这一点和刚才所说的第三点是有联系的。有些问题问出来之后会戳到人家敏感点，甚至会冒犯人家。当你面对对方感觉过分放松的时候，就很可能是犯这种错误的时候。所以当你面对对方的时候既要放松，又不可过分放松。

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