助你走好人生路的成功贴士(下)_BEC初级作文

助你走好人生路的成功贴士(下)

但是如果我们真的为了完美主义，走火入魔了，会发生什么呢？一旦没有达到自己设立的标准（高得离奇），我们就会不满和气馁，从而不愿意接受新的挑战，甚至半途而废已经着手在做的任务。坚持对细节一丝不苟的专注（dotting every ‘I’ and crossing every ‘T’），造成了低效率、大延期、超负荷以及烂结果。

Remember, the real world doesn’t reward perfectionists. It rewards people who get things done. So make a decision. Take action. Learn from the outcome. And repeat this method over and over and over again.

要记住，真实的世界是不会给予完美主义者奖赏的。处理完事务的人才能得到回报。所以，在做出决定后马上行动，从结果中汲取经验和方法，然后重复运用这个方法。

8 Stop caring about being right all the time.

不把自己的价值观强加于他人

There are few absolute ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’ in the world. What’s right for you may be wrong for me, and vise versa. People need to live their lives their way – the way that’s right for them.

世上鲜有绝对的“是”与“非”。对你来说是对的，对我来说可能是错的，反之亦然。人们需要用自己的方式生活——适合他们的方式。

When it comes to life choices and opinions, not much is worth fighting about. Step back from arguments with your spouse, family members or neighbors. When you feel anger surging up and you want to yell that vulgar remark on tip of your tongue, just close your mouth and walk away. Let mind calm down. You don’t have to be right or win an argument.