幸福爱情的12个陈词滥调_BEC初级作文

幸福爱情的12个陈词滥调

尝试改变，调剂生活。研究表明，无趣的生活会导致感情产生裂痕。尝试一些新鲜的东西，可以是到一家没去过的餐厅吃饭这样的小事，也可以是去斯里兰卡背包旅行这样的大计划。在这过程中你们二人共同的新发现会让你们的感情更加亲密。

3. The couple that plays together, stays together. Find a sport or hobby that you both love (no, watching TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship. Camping, biking, building model trains... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

能玩到一起的夫妻才长久。寻找一项你们二人都喜爱的运动或爱好（看电视可不能算）并把它作为你们生活中的优先选择。野营、骑车、制作火车模型… … 不管是什么，找到一种你们俩都喜欢做的事。

4. Fight right. In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. Don't call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry.

选择正确的吵架方式。为了不让你们的争吵恶化，记住这些规则。不要出口伤人。如果争吵太激烈，先停一会儿，让对方把话说完。不要在生气的时候开始一场讨论。

5. I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine. No one likes demands (unless you're in a BDSM role play), but everyone can appreciate a compromise. If you want your lover to do something and you're not sure he'll be agreeable, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: "Sure, I'll watch Monday Night Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice."