乐观人群的字典里从来没有“等待”“希望”“盼望”这些词。他们总是用那些强有力、而且积极主动的字眼,绝不会用那种被动的字眼。被动会让人缺乏参与精神,而乐观人群会积极参与到自己的人生规划中。在困境中他们会用行动来改善自己的感受,而不是指望坏情绪快消失。
3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.
对于乐观人群来说,过去只停留在过去
Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.
回忆,无论好坏,都应该留在原地 —— 也就是事情发生的过去。乐观人群不会过分怀念美好的旧时光,因为他们正忙着创造新的回忆。而过去那些负面回忆的作用不是让你自怨自艾,也不是让你毫无意义地后悔,而是让你在后悔过后从中吸取教训,然后让其成为通向更美好未来的垫脚石。
4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.
乐观人群都懂得感恩
The most positive people are the most grateful people. They do not focus on the potholes of their lives. They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences. They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.
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