We never understood them. We would sit in the car driving home quietly but clearly a bit depressed. We'd wonder if we were strange to not be seeing the separation as some parentally liberating event. We decided we weren't strange at all, just lucky. To have kids we preferred being with, children we would miss.
我一直都没有弄懂他们。我们会坐在车里,静静地把车开回家,但明显感觉到有些沮丧。我们也曾怀疑自己是否有些奇怪,因为我们没有将分离视为从父母重责中"解放"出来的时机。 后来我们觉得自己其实一点也不奇怪,反而是很幸运。我们拥有的这群子女,是我们喜欢相伴身旁,会想念记挂的子女。
It was three years ago, nearly to the day. Our middle child was walking through the processional as Mamaroneck High School celebrated its graduating seniors. It was a perfect day and there we were, my wife and I, applauding, cheering and then, as always, photographing Will and all his friends as they left the high school field.
三年前,差不多是这个时候,马马罗内克高中为其高三毕业生举行庆祝仪式,我们的第二个孩子在列队行进音乐中迈进。那是完美的一天,我和妻子都在现场鼓掌、欢呼,并且接下来如往常一般,为将要结束高中生活的维尔和他的朋友们拍照。
Our son was off to a graduation party and would meet us later. My wife and I sat in the car at the stop light, waiting to pull out of the high school parking lot. I remember the moment vividly. With a lump in my throat, I looked over to my wife, and she was sitting there with tears in her eyes. "I'll be OK," she said. "I'm going to miss him so much. It's just so sad."
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