BT: We loved this quote: "Claiming a career and getting a good job isn't the end, it's the beginning." Can you explain this a bit?
BT:我们很喜欢这句话:“拥有一项事业和开始一份好工作并不是结束,而只是开始。”您可以解释一下这句话吗?
MJ: Most 20somethings are terrified of being pinned down. They're afraid that if they choose a career or a job, they are closing off their other options and somehow their freedom will be gone and their lives will be over. In fact, getting a good job is the beginning. It's the beginning of not hating that question, "What do you do?" It's the beginning of having something on your resume that might help you get that next job you want even more. It's the beginning of not overdrawing your bank account because of a flat tire. It's the beginning of feeling like you could actually think about dating since your time isn't taken up working those three part-time jobs you have in order to avoid a "real job." Research shows that getting going in the work world is the beginning of feeling happier, more confident, competent, and emotionally stable in adulthood.
MJ:很多20出头的年轻人特别害怕稳定下来。他们觉得,如果我选择了一项事业、一份工作,那么未来其他的可能性都被抹杀了、自由被剥夺、人生因此就这么完了。事实上,找到一份好工作仅仅是开始罢了。它能让你在被别人问到:“你是做什么工作的?”时候不再觉得心虚、不爽。它能为你的简历添上一笔,并为你得到下一份更满意的工作提供实质性的帮助。它帮你支付换轮胎的账单,同时保证你不会因此而破产。它将你从没工作时的三份兼职中解救出来,给你闲暇时间,从而提供能外出约会的可能性。研究显示,有了真正工作的人更快乐,更自信,更能干、情绪也更稳定。
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