MJ:我很喜欢美国心理学家Sheldon Kopp的一句话:“平淡的人生不值得审视”。有太多年轻人被误导着去相信:“20岁是用来思考自己想干嘛的,而30岁才是真正步入生活的时候”。如果你想更积极地去工作,去爱,选择一个你感兴趣的领域,然后开始工作吧。试着和上一个给你带来惨痛回忆截然不同的对象约会,并时刻提醒自己要开始转变。诚然,20多岁正是体验的时候,但光凭哲思般的空想、度假和物质满足可不行。20多岁是体验不同工作和感情生活的最好时机。你所做的每一步,都应该比上一次更具目的性、更富远见。
BT: How do you suggest they track their progress toward their future goals? Are milestones like 21 and 30 important?
BT:您是如何建议他们朝着未来目标不断进步的?21和30岁这样的里程碑时刻是不是特别重要?
MJ: Absolutely. Milestones--21, 25, 30, New Year's, birthdays, reunions--are important because they trigger self-reflection. Am I where I wanted to be by this age? Did I do what I said I would do this year? If not, why not. And if not now, when? A savvy 20something who interviewed me recently told me about a question she was advised to ask herself as she moved through adulthood: "If you keep living your life exactly as it is, where will you be in 3 years?" If you don't like the answer, now is the time to change course.
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