Ms. Alvarez also has anxiety when parting from her boyfriend, who lives an hour away. The two have developed a 'separation ritual' for Sunday evenings, after a weekend spent together. First, they agree in advance on the time he will leave. For their last hour or so together, they talk and relax. When it's time, they go outside together. Ms. Alvarez gives him a hug but doesn't watch him get in the car. Instead, she goes immediately back in the house with her paintings. 'I choose where I place my attention,' she says.
阿尔瓦雷斯的男友住在离她家一小时路程的地方,她与他分开时也会焦虑。经过摸索,他们两人共度周末后,会在周日晚上举行一个“分离仪式”。首先,他们提前商量好他离开的时间。在俩人待在一起的最后一小时里,他们会聊天并放松身心。到时间时,他们会一起出去。阿尔瓦雷斯给他一个拥抱,但不会看着他上车。相反,她会立即回到屋里去,屋里有很多她的画作。她说,“我会选好一个集中注意力的地方。”
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