分手不是世界末日：分手后绝不要做的8件事_BEC初级作文

分手不是世界末日：分手后绝不要做的8件事

分手后的情侣很少有能成为真正的朋友，直到你可以接受前任另寻新欢了，在此之前你们并没有准备好成为朋友。

Create intentional space for a while and let yourself mourn the end of the relationship. If your ex is pushing for friendship, stand your ground if you’re uncomfortable with the idea. Right now, you’re not looking for a friend who looks exactly like the person who broke your heart.

刻意保持一段时间的距离，允许自己为这段关系的结束而伤心。如果前任想要和你做朋友，而这让你感到不悦，就坚持自己的立场。现在你并不需要和一个曾经伤了你的心的人做朋友。

3. Seek revenge.

寻求报复

Don’t key his car, kidnap his cat, or destroy his stuff. And never, ever do something that could land you in legal trouble. (If you share the lease, deal with it like responsible adults. Don’t lock him out.)

别刮花他的车，绑架他的猫，或者破坏他的东西。而且千万千万不要做那些可能给你带来法律上麻烦的事情。（如果你们之前共同租房，像一个负责人的成年人那样去处理这个问题。别把他锁在门外。）

The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it.