乐观达人广交好友

Do you enjoy being around a pessimist, someone who is generally described as being able to brighten up a room just by leaving it? The answer is obvious. Most people prefer to be around people who believe that tomorrow is going to be better than today, rather than people who believe that today is even worse than yesterday.

你喜欢和一个悲观主义者呆在一起吗？那种一离开房间大伙儿就开心地不得了的人？答案显而易见。大多数人愿意和相信明天会更好的人交朋友，而不是那些哀叹今天比昨天更糟的人。

Optimists spread cheer wherever they go and make others feel good about themselves. That's a guaranteed way to make friends.

乐观达人们所到之处都能传播欢笑，也使他人喜欢自己。这是结交朋友的一个保证条件哦！

4. Capturing the pleasing personality

培养讨人喜欢的个性

Virtually every time you say that so-and-so has "charisma," you're really talking about so-and-so's great personality. When he walks into a room, he has a presence — not just looks — that attracts attention from people around him. Or when she's in a crowd, you soon hear a soft buzz coming from the area where she is.

事实上，当你每次赞美某某有风范气质时，你其实就是在谈论他迷人的个人魅力。当他走进房间，他的存在（不单单是他的长相）就会吸引在场的人。或者是即使当她在蜂拥的人群中，你也能很快听到其悦耳的声音从她所在的地方传来。

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