If you’re in a long term relationship or marriage, you know that it’s not always easy to keep that warm glow of freshness and excitement alive in your relationship.

假如你有固定伴侣，或早已迈入婚姻殿堂，你便能体会到：在感情中，若想保持起初的新鲜和刺激感，可不是一件容易的事。

After the first bout of heady romantic love is gone, everyday sameness settles into any relationship

当最初那阵令人迷醉又转瞬即逝的浪漫散去，你们的小日子里便渐渐开始被日复一日的枯燥所占据了。

And unless you’re making conscious efforts to keep things hot, soon boredom and tedium takes the shine off one of the most special relationships of your life, making it feel like just another chore. So what are these conscious efforts that you can make?

除非刻意保持新鲜感，否则这段生命中最特别的关系将会被无聊和单调抹去它原有的光辉，使你厌倦不堪。那么，该如何来有意识地避免这种事发生？

Here are some of the tricks my husband and I frequently use to keep things as new and happening as our first few days.

我和我的丈夫是通过以下的几个小技巧，来保持两人间的新鲜感的。

1. Surprise Surprise!

惊喜！惊喜！

Couples spend weeks – sometimes months – planning for the next birthday/anniversary gift for their spouse/significant other.

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