Even if you have known a person for a hundred years, it is impossible to know exactly what they are feeling. You can’t feel something for them, or know exactly how their mind is processing something. You could invest every bit of your energy over the course of your entire life in an attempt to achieve this understanding, but in the end you will fall short.

即使你认识这个人一百年了，也不可能完全知道他们的感受。你无法代替他们去感受，或是知道他们脑海中到底在想些什么。你可以穷尽一生的力量来达到这个地步，但最终你还是会失败。

What you can do is be a friend who listens, supports, and loves openly without judgment. Only then will you get a momentary, unfiltered glimpse into their soul.

你可以做的就是和那些倾听你，支持你和无条件爱你的人做朋友。这样你才能在那一瞬间，得以瞥见他们的灵魂。

8. Connecting with your purpose brings great results.

有的放矢能带来好结果

Don’t allow others to convince your heart what to do. Your heart already knows. Listen to it. Don’t let anyone else distinguish what is right or wrong for you. You’ve got to stand up for something specific, on your own two legs, or you will achieve nothing great in life.

别让别人说服你该去干什么。你的心早有答案。跟随自己的心。别让其他人替你判别孰是孰非。你必须用自己两条腿站起来，为了心中所想的那件特定的事努力，否则一辈子都会一事无成。

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