之后,他对儿子解释道:“我知道要时时刻刻地守规矩、排队、专心听讲,这很难。不过,在规矩面前,你没有特权,你也不比队里的其他任何人更重要。”他的儿子点了点头,然后“我们拥抱了一下”。自从那次以后,怀亚特再也没有在训练中有过糟糕表现。
The Greenes also step in with carefully targeted encouragement when their kids hit a rough patch. When Wyatt fell behind in reading at school last year, Mr. Greene says, 'his self-esteem was fragile and almost gone.' They hired a tutor and worked with him on reading. But Mr. Greene also encouraged him to redefine his own worth, saying, 'You're not measured upon rewards or grades. It's who you are that matters.' And Ms. Greene told him, 'Everyone has challenges. This happens to be yours.' Wyatt now reads well and enjoys it. But the Greenes hope he also learned a sturdier basis for self-esteem.
当孩子受到挫折时,格林夫妇也会通过具有明确针对性的鼓励来帮助他们。贾森说,去年,当怀亚特在学校的阅读成绩落后时,“他的自尊变得很脆弱,几乎完全没有了”。他们聘请了一位家教,帮他辅导阅读。不过,做父亲的同时也在鼓励儿子重塑信心,他告诉儿子:“你的价值不是靠奖励或是成绩来衡量的。真正重要的是你是谁。”母亲则对儿子说:“每个人都会面临挑战。这就是你的挑战。”怀亚特如今的阅读很好,而且很喜欢这门功课。不过格林夫妇还希望他自信的基础能够更扎实些。
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