你对他人的评判非黑即白;你善于应用消极攻击法,忍气吞声,直到对方最终达到你心目中的要求。“喜欢不动声色地暗中评判”是控制狂的显著特征之一。
4. You offer "constructive criticism" as a veiled attempt to advance your own agenda.
为了满足自己的议程表,你时常不动声色地提供“建设性意见”。
5. You change who you are or what you believe so that someone will accept you. Instead of just being yourself, you attempt to incept others by managing their impression of you.
为了使别人接受自己,你愿意改变自己原本的样子和信仰。与其以原本相貌坦诚面对他人,你更愿意通过改变自身形象,达到操控别人的目的。
6. You present worst-case scenarios in an attempt to influence someone away from certain behaviors and toward others. This is also called fear mongering.
为了感化他人,使其改掉某些习惯,你不惜动用一切手段。这种方法也称为“恐惧散布法”。
7. You have a hard time with ambiguity and being OK with not knowing something.
你对模棱两可的事物接受度极低;你同样不允许“不知情”的情况在自己身上发生。
8. You intervene on behalf of people by trying to explain or dismiss their behaviors to others.
You believe that if you can change another person's undesirable behavior, then you will be happier or more fulfilled. You make someone else responsible for how you feel.
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