致女人:婚前这些道理你该懂_BEC初级作文

致女人:婚前这些道理你该懂

What starts off as a hot and heavy romance could end up feeling less-than-passionate within a year. Sometimes this just means you need to retool your approach to romance and try new things when it comes to sex, but other times it means whatever you had is over. You might still think he's nice and fun to be around, but if the chemistry is truly gone, it's not likely to come rushing back any time soon, and you can't force it. Moving forward with a guy you no longer feel any kind of spark with is a bad idea. You'll be leading him on and risking spending time with a person you're no longer into.

产生不了化学反应

引燃一段火热恋情的东西最终可能因一年之内感觉不到激情而终结。有时这就意味着你需要给浪漫另寻出路，当涉及性时尝试新事物，但其他时候这意味着无论你拥有过什么都已经结束了。你可能还认为他在你身边时人好又幽默，但如果化学反应消失，不太可能很快重回正轨，你不能强求。与一个你不再擦出任何火花的家伙继续下去是一个坏主意。你会给他错觉，并冒着风险将时间浪费在你不再喜欢的人身上。

YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

We know you've heard it before and you're going to hear it again – that in order to really have a successful, meaningful relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. It may sound like something out of a self-help book, but trust us – it's true. If you don't love and respect yourself, then how can you expect someone else to do it? The happier you are with who you are, the easier it will be to attract someone who is worthy of your love and who will treat you well.