You can never connect with others if you're busy connecting with your stuff, too.
如果你忙于处理自己的事情,你就永远不能和其他人产生联系。
Give the gift of your full attention. That's a gift few people give. That gift alone will make others want to be around you and remember you.
向别人赋予充分的重视。只有少部分人能做到如此。仅仅靠着这份“馈赠”,就能让别人愿意和你在一起,并且记住你.
4. They give before they receive--and often they never receive.
4.获取前先付出——而且经常根本就不获取。
Never think about what you can get. Focus on what you can provide. Giving is the only way to establish a real connection and relationship.
永远不要想你能得到什么。关注于你能提供什么。付出是建立真正的联系和关系的唯一途径。
5. They don't act self-important…
5.不会表现得妄自尊大……
The only people who are impressed by your stuffy, pretentious, self-important self are other stuffy, pretentious, self-important people.
唯一会被你那沉闷的、自命不凡的、妄自尊大的自我意识所触动的只会是那些同样沉闷、自命不凡、妄自尊大的人。
The rest of us aren't impressed. We're irritated, put off, and uncomfortable.
剩下的人不会被触动,而会被惹恼、会感到反感和不舒服。
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