还在跟那些糟糕的朋友浪费时间？真朋友的五大特质_BEC初级作文

还在跟那些糟糕的朋友浪费时间？真朋友的五大特质

A real friend loves and accepts you exactly as you are, and doesn’t care if you live in overalls and striped socks, eat cheese and pickle sandwiches on raisin bread, or dress like you stepped out of a Renaissance Faire. They accept you as you are, “warts and all”.

真朋友应该喜欢并接受你真实的样子，不在乎你是否穿套装或条纹袜子，吃奶酪、泡菜三明治加葡萄干面包，或打扮成要去文艺复兴集会的样子。他们真心接受你这个人——包括你的缺点。

4. Dependability

值得信赖

“You need not wonder whether you should have an unreliable person as a friend. An unreliable person is nobody’s friend.”– Idries Shah

“你无需跟不可靠的人交朋友，因为不可靠的人不是任何人的朋友。”——爱德里艾斯·沙阿

Have you ever had an experience in which you made sure you were there for a friend when they needed you, but when you needed them in turn, they weren’t available? If you have, you might remember how much that hurt, and how betrayed you may have felt at the time. It hurts like hell when you go out of your way to take care of someone, and then when you’re vulnerable and in need, find out that they’d consider it inconvenient to reciprocate. They might say that they’re too busy, or they might even “accidentally” miss your calls/texts, but there’s usually some excuse they come up with in order to get out of whatever it is you need from them.