"We call it self-reporting rather than bragging," says Tulgan, who tested a number of solutions to the praise problem and found that regular meetings -- along with clear goals and benchmarks -- can work wonders. "You'd be amazed at how self-sufficient the young praise junkies become."

“我们将这称为主动汇报，而不是自夸，”塔尔干表示，他测试过很多解决表扬问题的方案，发现定期会面、同时结合明确的目标与标准，可以取得很好的效果。“你肯定吃惊，这些年轻的表扬迷们可以变得多么自立。”

Celebrate someone else's success. Another surprising remedy: giving praise to a colleague or group of peers. "It has a lot of positive effect," Tulgan says. Not only does sharing your appreciation improve your coworkers' mood and self-esteem, it may encourage them to pay more close attention to your performance and return the favor in the future.

祝贺他人的成功。另外一个出人意料的处方是，表扬某个同事或某一些同事。“这样做有很多正面效果，”塔尔干说。说出你的赞赏，不仅能让同事心情大好，更加自信，还能鼓励他们更紧密地关注你的表现，同时在未来做出相应的回报。

If you're still unconvinced that praise addiction is a problem you need to solve, consider the effect that your neediness has on the people around you at work.

如果你仍然不相信表扬瘾是一个需要解决的问题，不妨想一想在工作中，你的这项需求对周围的人产生了什么样的影响。

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