Such setups require parents to coach their kids on housework skills, but also to give up some control─and avoid micromanaging, which can lead to conflict with teens trying to assert their independence. Ms. Cox says that while she has shown Seth and Jenna how to do laundry correctly, Seth still washes colors and whites together sometimes. 'He doesn't always care if his socks were once white and are all gray now,' she says.
这样的安排要求家长们能够在家务技能方面指导他们的孩子,但也意味着要放弃一些控制,还要避免事无巨细的监管,因为这可能会导致父母与努力要证明自身独立的孩子发生冲突。杰娜说,尽管她已经教过塞思和詹娜如何洗衣服,可是有的时候塞思还是会将有色衣物和白色衣物混在一起洗。她说:“他一点也不在乎原来的白袜子被染成灰色了。”
More important, she says, is that the twins are learning the natural consequences of failing to be responsible: 'If they don't do the laundry, they don't have clean clothes.'
她说,这其中更重要的是,两个孩子学习到了不负责任会有什么后果:“如果他们不洗衣服,就没有干净的衣服穿了。”
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