Could you be harming your relationship without realising it? Here are ten habits that could lead to a break-up lest you keep them in check.
有没有可能在你没有意识到的情况下,你已经在伤害你们的感情?下面是可能导致分手的10大习惯,来看看你有么:
1. Giving him the silent treatment
沉默以对
While it might feel good to freeze him out and let him stew, not speaking to him will only have a detrimental effect on your relationship in the long run. He’ll get frustrated by your lack of communication and you’ll never get your point across if you’re not actually speaking to him. Successful relationships are based good communication, so instead of sulking and giving him the cold shoulder, try talking through your problems and finding the solution together.
冷落他,让他好好反省反省,这样做或许能解你心头之恨,但从长远看,这种做法只会使关系陷入僵局。你的缄默的确挫伤他的锐气,但如果你不说出来,他怎么会知道你在想什么。成功的感情以良好的沟通为基础,所以不要把事情闷在心里、冷眼相向,把问题摆出来,共同解决。
2. Nag, nag nagging
唠叨,各种唠叨
Yes, he always forgets to take the rubbish and it really gets your goat, but nagging him isn’t going to make things any better. Men tune out the sound of women’s voices when they start to irritate them so it becomes a vicious cycle – you ask him to do something, he zones out, you get frustrated and ask him again and again and infinitum causing a build up of resentment and anger on both sides.
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