2. Do you even know yourself well enough already?

你已经足够了解自己了吗？

It’s important to know yourself before becoming part of a relationship. If you don’t stand for anything, you’ll find yourself unconsciously giving too much and questioning if it was even enough.

谈恋爱前一定要对自己足够了解。如果你毫无立场，到时候会不自觉地无限付出，还一直困惑自己到底付出得够不够。

Set standards on the people you want to be in your life and how you want to be treated. Know what you’re worth and eventually, you’ll make him or her believe it too.

生活中要出现另一半时，先定下双方相处原则。你要清楚自己的价值，然后让对方相信你有这样的价值。

3. You just got out of one recently.

你刚刚结束一段恋情

When you’ve just broken up with your ex, finding a rebound would seem like the most convenient solution. It’s an easy distraction from the past, all of a sudden your attention is claimed by someone else.

若你刚和前任分手，找个备胎貌似再简单不过了。你的注意力突然转移到了另一个人身上，自然更容易忘记过去。

However, this shortcut to recovery is also short-lived. If you’re not genuinely ready, it will show. Give it time, enjoy being single and save someone else from the heart ache.

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