致单身的人：你真准备好要谈恋爱？_BEC初级作文

致单身的人：你真准备好要谈恋爱？

If you’re a person who has a vision and a plan, this is a good question to ask yourself. How will a romantic relationship fit in with your priorities? If you know that right now, you’re still building your career and there’s a lot at stake, is it the right time to have one? While you’re finishing one project after another, having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a nice to have that you think about during your breaks.

如果你有自己的目标和规划，那很有必要扪心自问：一段浪漫的恋爱是否是当务之急？如果你确信如此，别忘了你正在努力打拼事业，百事待兴，这时候谈恋爱适合吗？你正项目接项目地忙活，喘息时想想身边能有个伴儿是件非常美好的事。

If you’re fully aware that it’s not one of your main concerns, there’s a high probability that you’ll take your partner for granted. It would be more beneficial and practical for you to allocate your time to what’s important to you as of the moment and avoid disappointing someone else.

如果你非常清楚这不是你的重中之重，那就算有恋人，你很可能也不会特别投入。这种情况下，倒不如把时间用来做当下最重要的任务，不要徒劳使他人失望罢。

It’s easy to be blinded by the media, past experiences and couples that you encounter about what a romantic relationship will bring you. But before you get consumed by your desire to have one or worse, be brought down by its current unattainability, be wise enough to think twice about it, what you want right now might not be what you need.