真正的成长需要付诸努力与汗水。太安逸并不利于成长,而只会让我们搁浅。你的舒适区是什么?你是不是常常赖在里面?跳出舒适区和别人在一起时,你会不会保留自己的空间?打破常规,尝试不同。通过接触新领域、适应新环境,你就能获得成长。
13. Put someone up to a challenge.
和别人一起挑战。
Competition is one of the best ways to grow. Set a challenge (weight loss, exercise, financial challenge, etc) and compete with an interested friend to see who achieves the target first. Through the process, both of you will gain more than if you were to set off on the target alone.
竞争是成长的最佳途径之一。设定一项挑战(减肥、健身、经济目标等),和感兴趣的朋友相互竞争,看谁先实现目标。相对于单独行动,这么做更能两全其美。
14. Identify your blind spots.
揪出盲点。
Scientifically, blind spots refer to areas our eyes are not capable of seeing. In personal development terms, blind spots are things about ourselves we are unaware of. Discovering our blind spots help us discover our areas of improvement. One exercise I use to discover my blind spots is to identify all the things/events/people that trigger me in a day – trigger meaning making me feel annoyed/weird/affected. These represent my blind spots. It’s always fun to do the exercise because I discover new things about myself, even if I may already think I know my own blind spots (but then they wouldn’t be blind spots would they?). After that, I work on steps to address them.
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