社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密_BEC初级作文

社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密

If you’re heading to the movies with a friend, invite another film-loving pal to come along. Love sports?Assemble a group to attend the big game. Spearhead gatherings at your home or a fun venue such as a wine bar, inviting at least a few people who are new to the group. Keeping your social network interconnected has a circular effect where you’re perceived as having many friends, thereby gaining you even more. Don’t forget your manners during impromptu meetings, either. When out with a friend, many people make the mistake of failing to introduce them to others they may encounter. By doing so you run the risk of coming off as socially inept at best and rude or uncaring at worst.

跟朋友去看电影时，顺便叫上其他爱看电影的朋友。喜欢运动？那就叫上一帮人组织一场比赛吧。主动请人来家里小聚，或去酒吧找找乐子，每次在圈子里介绍几个新人。保持自己的社交圈活络具有循环效应：别人会认为你有很多朋友，结果你也确实交上越来越多的朋友。当然，重要聚会上一定要举止得体。和朋友外出时，很多人都会犯错，不把朋友介绍给遇到的人，结果情况好的话，会被人看作“社交无能”，刻薄点的话，会被认为“粗鲁无礼”。

6. Be your (best) self

做（最好的）自己

Yes, it’s a cliche you’ve heard a million and one times, but ideas become cliches by standing the test of time. Insincerity is a huge turn-off and no matter how great of an actor you are, the pretense will catch up with you. The most attractive people, both physically and mentally, are the ones who are clearly comfortable in their own skin. Accepting and embracing your own unique qualities radiates a healthy confidence that’s magnetic to others.