在工作场合有很多拥抱的正当理由——从团队获胜到裁员告别,可拥抱的场合很多。但我认识的一位高管分享了一个通用的职场建议:“不要喊,不要哭,不要拥抱。”他的建议得到了问卷调查结果的支持,调查显示大多数人不想和同事有亲密行为。
As the question of whether or not to hug becomes more situational, the potential rises for awkward encounters. The biggest risk: going in for a hug only to realize too late that the other person had not planned the same. Expert consensus says that if you're going for the hug and it's too late to turn back, don't stop. Press on, but make it quick.
既然该不该拥抱的问题变得越来越取决于场合因素,那么会面时出现尴尬的可能性就变大了。最大的风险是:准备拥抱的时候却意识到对方并没有同样打算。专家一致认为,如果你准备拥抱,而且回头又太晚,那就不要停。抱上去,但动作要快。
For nonhuggers, there are some defensive maneuvers. Deflect: Keep something (a desk, a table, a co-worker) between you and the serial hugger until the moment passes. Deny: 'Sorry, I'm not much of a hugger.' Resist: Take physical control with a stiff handshake and firm elbow that keeps personal space intact. Escape: Find something that requires your immediate attention. If nothing comes to mind, drop your cellphone. Lie: 'I really don't want you to catch this cold I have.' Or when diversion isn't feasible and escape is impossible, accept the hug with an icy response and hope that the hugger remembers.
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