选择是不定的。你被“不能”捆绑得越多,养成了“不能” 的习惯,那么就会失去越多本可赚到的金钱。
6. You avoid saying “no”
学不会说“不”
Your sister asks you for money. She never gives the money back, but you still just can’t say “no.”
你妹妹问你借钱,从来不还,你还是不会说“不”。
You keep lending money, or buying dinner for your friends, just because saying “no” is easier than paying. I’m not saying that “no” should come easy. But I am proposing to be conscious about why you do what you do.
你总是借钱或者请朋友吃饭,只是因为说不比付钱要简单。我不是说拒绝可以简单,我只是建议你需要意识到自己为什么要做这件事。
7. You confuse your account balance with your self-worth
你混淆了银行存款和自我价值
The balance on your account is just a number. Yet, we tend to be emotional with that number. When this balance is not up to our standards, we may feel shame and self-pity.
你银行的钱只是个数字,的确我们对那个数字有感情。一旦达不到一个标准就会觉得丢人和难受。
That’s exactly what overweight–or even thin–people feel when on the scale. The number on the scale feels like it describes their self-worth, when it doesn’t!
这就是那些称体重的胖子或瘦子们的想法。称上面的数字似乎显示了他们的价值,但实际并没有啊。
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