同时,你绝不应该做的,是贸然与他谈话,要求他注意自己的言辞。如果一个人已处于勃然大怒之中,并且嘴里骂骂咧咧,这时一位年轻女士突然打断他,要求他不要这么做,他最自然的反应会是抓起电脑扔向这位女士。但事实上这人并没有这么做,而是仅仅说你的性格可能更适合女修道院而不是办公室,这表明他非常成功地守住了自己的职场界限。
As a result of this ugly little scene, you each think poorly of the other. This is much more of a problem for you than it is for him, as he is above you in the pecking order. He is also generally believed to be good at what he does, while it is not clear if anyone thinks you are good or not. So the first thing I suggest you do is concentrate on not offending him further.
这件不快的小事造成的后果是你们彼此留下了很差的印象。这给你造成的问题比他大,因为他在公司的地位比你高。另外,大家都认为他的工作很出色,而大家是否觉得你的工作表现很出色还不清楚。因此,我建议你要做的第一件事是注意不要再冒犯他了。
If you insist on doing something, try to find out whether your colleagues are offended by his smell and alleged fondness for the bottle too. If so, tell your boss and let him sort it out.
如果你坚持要做点什么,你可以试着调查一下你的同事们,对于他的体味和据你所说他对杯中之物的癖好,他们是不是也难以忍受。如果确实是这样,把情况反映给你的老板,让他来解决问题。
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