这是一个很容易掉入的陷阱。要向这些人指出他们持续的负能量不是一件好事。我们不想这样做是因为让别人沉浸在他们的痛苦之中要容易得多,我们更愿意置身事外。
But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.
但如果你为了他们好,就不要给他们这个错误的印象,让他们以为自己的负能量是正常的。
4. Don’t make their problems your problems
不要把他们的问题变成你的问题
Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.
虽然我认为同情心是一份礼物,但它可能很危险。当我们听见某个朋友或者家人的抱怨,我们总是和他们一起承担起了烦恼。
This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.
这是一个坏习惯,尤其如果这个人总是满身负能量。这种人很可能为了博取同情而包装出一个故事。
Why else would they be sharing this with you?
否则他们为什么要和你分享这些负面的事情呢?
5. Change the subject
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