改掉抱怨的坏习惯不是说要让你自己成为别人的受气包。自信就是告诉别人你需要什么，如何才能得到满足。用简单的姿势就能传达这份自信。站直，有力的握手，跟别人眼神交流。

Enunciate and speak clearly, you want people to understand your point. Avoid rambling, which may lead to awkward and unproductive pauses. Be firm and express what you want clearly. Don’t leave your meaning to guess work.

明确清晰的发言，因为你想要别人理解你说的话。避免闲聊，以防会有尴尬的浪费时间的停顿。坚定清楚的表达你想要什么。不要让别人去猜测。

5. Be Less Judgmental

少点挑剔

This includes yourself. Everyone makes mistakes and being critical leads to complaining. Should of, would of, and could of are phrases that’s better left out of your vocabulary. Let go of control. It is simply impossible to be in control of every situation, sometimes it is best to lower the stress and simply roll with the consequences.

这也包括对你自己。每个人都会犯错挑剔招致抱怨。也许，大概和可能最好从你的词汇表中抹去。放手吧。想去控制每件事真的不可能，有时候最好的办法就是减少压力，接受结果。

List your strengths to build confidence and, on a better day, list your weaknesses and how to downplay them. Compliment yourself and others. Acknowledge a job well done, or a nicely fitting suit or dress.

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