拒绝当狼爸虎妈如何避免冲孩子发脾气_BEC初级作文

拒绝当狼爸虎妈如何避免冲孩子发脾气

Build a margin of spare time into daily routines to allow time for minor mishaps, such as spilled milk or lost jackets, says Jill Savage, author of 'No More Perfect Moms.' She adds, 'If I have 20 minutes to clean up after dinner, I'm more likely to handle that spilled milk well.'

《不再当完美妈妈》(No More Perfect Moms)一书作者吉尔・萨维奇(Jill Savage)说，可在每日例行安排中留出一点富余时间处理小意外，比如孩子把牛奶弄了或者上衣弄丢。她补充称：“如果饭后我有20分钟时间进行清理，我就更有可能把牛奶弄的事处理好。”

Learning to start sentences with 'I' rather than 'you' can help parents shift from an angry attack to a teaching moment, Ms. Faber says. 'Say what you don't like, then add what you would like or expect.'

费伯说，学会将“我”而不是“你”作为句子的开头，能够帮助父母将怒气冲冲的攻击转变为对孩子的教育。她说：“说你不喜欢看到些什么，然后补充说你喜欢或者希望看到些什么。”

Leigh Fransen felt like yelling when her daughters, 10-year-old Alona and 8-year-old Elisha, forgot to feed the family dog, Balto, on two evenings in the same week. 'This is a really important responsibility, and they're always asking me for more pets,' says Ms. Fransen, of Fort Mill, S.C. 'I wanted to yell, 'You're not getting any dinner tonight, because you didn't feed the dog, and you're going to know how it feels'-which would lead to nothing but tears and misery, and probably to me backing down.'