在工作中,人们经常掩盖、隐瞒或者无视坏消息。没有人愿意承认自己犯错了,因为我们总觉得报告坏消息的人有被解雇的风险。为了自身的职业进展的利益,以及保持良好的情绪,我们不会谈及坏消息。
Leaders are often sheltered from bad news. People around them protect them, they love to only tell the good news, and because this makes everyone feel better. In many instances it is personality or the company culture that make it difficult for anyone to bring bad news.
领导者总能不被坏消息侵袭。领导者身边的人保护领导者免于听到坏消息,他们只喜欢说好消息。而且只说好消息可以让大家都更轻松愉快。在许多例子中,正是个人文化或者企业文化使得人们难以说出坏消息。
What we have to do is to change our responses to bad news. Instead of the more natural “oh no, I can't believe it. I don’t want to know” reaction, we have to force ourselves to respond more positively along the lines of: “thank you so much for telling me. I really appreciate that.” This does take some conscious effort and requires extra efforts the higher up you are in the organization because of all the people that might 'filters' the truth.
我们要做的就是改变我们对待坏消息的反应。我们应该迫使自己回应地更加正面,譬如:“非常感谢你告诉我。我非常感激。”而不是更自然地回应道“哦,不,我不敢相信。我不想要知道。” 你在公司中的地位越高,你就越需要花精力有意识地去了解坏消息,因为你从下面得到的消息已经经过了层层的“过滤”了。
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