It's important to remember that fairness isn't just about absolute equality. It's about the perception of equality. Women may work fewer paid hours than men, but because they devote nearly twice as much time to family care (housework, child care, shopping), it doesn't look to women like their husbands are sharing the load evenly when they're all home together. It looks instead like their husbands are watching 'SportsCenter.'
我们必须牢记,公平不仅仅是绝对的平等,而是对平等的感知。女性的有酬工作时间可能比男性短,但她们用于照顾家庭(家务、照顾孩子、购物)的时间几乎相当于男性的两倍,因此在女性看来,当双方都在家时,她们的丈夫并没有均等地分担家务。她们感觉丈夫总是在看体育资讯。
It's hard to overstate how stressful these perceived imbalances can be. At one point, the UCLA researchers took saliva samples from most of the subjects of their study to measure levels of cortisol, the stress hormone. They found that while leisure time went a long way toward relaxing fathers, it did far less to subdue anxiety in mothers. So what, you may ask, did calm the mothers?
这些感受到的不平衡带来的压力之大怎么形容都不过分。加州大学洛杉矶分校的的研究人员在研究中提取了多数对象的唾液样本,以测量压力荷尔蒙皮质醇的水平。他们发现,尽管闲暇时间能很好地帮助父亲放松,但对减轻母亲焦虑情绪的效果却要差得多。那么你也许会问,什么才能让妈妈们恢复平静呢?
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