女性依然难以逆袭印度容不下剩女_BEC初级作文

女性依然难以逆袭印度容不下剩女

我们学到的一切都告诉我们要铭记我们未来的身份是妻子和儿媳。我们学会做饭、做家务，举止要得体，形象要合宜。一旦“形象”出了问题，我们找到好夫君的可能性就会降低。点开任意一个婚介网站（在印度，最近婚介网站是大势所趋），你会发现诸如“以家庭为重”、“顾家”、“对事业不太热心”等要求，人们往往希望新娘具备上述品质。大家都希望讨个把家庭放在第一位，事业放在第二位的妻子。每个男方家庭都希望有一个尊敬老人的儿媳，一旦出现其他更重要的事，如丈夫工作上的调动、孩子或其他紧急情况，儿媳会放弃自己的事业。要成为男人生活中的完美女人，你必须接受过最好的教育，相貌出众，事业有成，并且愿意把事业放在次要位置。我至今单身的原因很简单——我还没遇到我的白马王子。

I might sound like a person who is against marriage. I am not. I love the idea of being married. I believe in this institution and I look forward to being married one day to the right guy. This is where the problem starts, with that phrase "the right guy".At 28, ideally I would have been married for a couple of years.By Indian standards, I've left it late and I am probably at the bottom of the pyramid of eligible women. But I still don't find the idea of "settling for" someone appealing.Everyone reminds me how I should make compromises and lower my expectations. As long as the man has decent looks and a respectable career and family background I shouldn't complain.