I believe that true love consists of these three key reasons to love someone. If I can say that I love someone for all three reasons, and I can articulate specific qualities in each of these categories, then I have a good understanding of what is most important to me. Please understand, however, that I'm not suggesting that it is necessary to create a master checklist before the next date. If the list is miles long, one may never find true happiness. After all, no one will completely measure up to a wish list that's too specific. However, it is important to understand those traits, qualities, or values that are not negotiable. We all probably have some non-negotiable items in each of the three categories I described above. Spending time with people who meet these basic criteria often makes interesting things happen. Sometimes strengths in some areas make weaknesses in other areas less offensive. Things we never imagined we could tolerate suddenly become acceptable because of the unique combination of strengths that another person brings to the relationship. Also remember that just as important as finding someone who meets my key criteria is making sure that I am lovable, too. We all have positive qualities, but which ones are the ones I want someone to love me for? Are those qualities most evident? Which of my less desirable traits can I improve upon?
我相信真正的爱情包括这个关键因素。如果我能说我爱上某人是由于这三个原因,如果我能清楚地说出这三种原因各自的特征,那我就能很好的理解对我来说什么才是最重要的。请谅解,我不是建议说在下次约会开始之前有必要先准备一张清单。如果这张清单有几英里长,你可能永远都找不到真爱。毕竟,没有人能完全符合一张详细的愿望清单。但是却很有必要了解这些特性,特征和价值,这些是不允许讨价还价的。对于我上述的三个原因,其中可能都有一些我们不允许讨价还价的因素。与符合这些基本标准的人度过一段时光通常会发生很多有趣的事情。有时,有些领域的优势使其他方面的劣势不那么突出了。有些我们认为无法忍受的事情突然变得可以接受了,因为另一个人给你们的关系中带来了优势的独特联系。请记住,找到满足我主要标准的人的同时,也是确保我也是可爱的。我们都有优点,但是哪些是我希望别人也承认的优点?那些品质是显而易见的么?哪些地方我还需要改进?
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