如果你找到了一个女人,她愿意跟在你的身后满世界跑,陪伴你发展自己的事业,而且如果在闯荡了一圈以后,她仍然是一个富有创造力的无拘无束的人,而不是一个满腹委屈、充满怨恨的厌世者,那么你确实做得不错。你在感情方面的投资比你在股票上的投资更加明智(当然你的股票投资也非常出色,因为你的投资组合规模已经足够支付购房定金了)。
You say your primary aim is matrimonial harmony. That is good. Keep reminding yourself of it. Then tell her not that you have capitulated but that you’ve changed your mind about the rent-versus-buy question. Tell her that she was right and you were wrong.
你说你的首要目标是婚姻和谐。这一点非常好。继续提醒自己牢记这一点。然后告诉你的未婚妻,你并不是举手投降,而是改变了在买房还是租房这一问题上的看法。告诉她说,她是对的,而你错了。
It is sheer madness to start your married life living somewhere horrible when you can afford to live somewhere nice. Maybe house prices will continue going up. Or maybe they won’t. Either way, the primary purpose of property isn’t as an investment. It is as a place to live. And if that place makes the person who is going to spend even more time there than you unhappy, it is a very bad idea indeed.
在你能够承担得起居住在更好地段的情况下,在一个糟糕的地方开始你的婚姻生活并不明智。或许房价会继续上涨,或许不会。但不管怎样,购买房产的主要目的不是作为一项投资,而是把它作为一个生活居住的地方。如果那个地方让你的未婚妻不开心,而且她待在房子里的时间比你更多,那么这无疑是一个非常糟糕的主意。
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