So rent somewhere fashionable, and do it with a light heart. It sounds as if during the day you do something quite dull, which is all the more reason to enjoy your evenings and weekends pretending to be someone cool as you flit around restaurants in Shoreditch (or wherever). As you do that, I suggest you look around you at the other people who live there. You’ll notice that there is hardly anyone over 40. That is because everyone older lives somewhere unfashionable and has a gigantic mortgage and children and is fretting about how to get them into a halfway decent school. That day will probably come for you – maybe even quite soon. But why pre-empt it, when it is so much more fun – and so much better for marital harmony – not to?
因此,找一个时尚的地段租套房子,并用一种轻松的心态来面对这件事。听起来似乎你白天所做的工作非常枯燥单调,这让你更有理由享受晚间以及周末的时光,比如假扮时尚人士在肖尔迪奇区(Shoreditch)这类餐馆林立的地区穿梭来去。在你这么做的时候,我建议你放眼四周看看在那里生活的其他人。你会看到很少有人超过40岁。这是因为年纪大一点的人都住在不时髦的地方,背负着沉重的抵押贷款债务和养育子女的压力,正在为了如何将子女送入一所大体说得过去的学校而愁眉不展。有一天或许你也会迎来这样的日子——甚至可能要不了多久。但为什么要提前过这样的生活,而不这么做将让你生活得更快乐,对于打造和谐的婚姻关系也更有好处?
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