Common interest
The proverb says that birds of the feather lock together. This may be true in some cases but generally speaking, the two individuals need a common interest. It may be playing video games or horse riding. It doesn’t matter; you just have to be sure that there is, at least, two things that you like to do with the other person. This will play a big role in the couple’s future life together.
Can you communicate to each other?
This is another key point. Two persons who cannot talk to each other just cannot live together. For a period of time, it can be possible but for a long-term relationship, it does not work. The two peoples have to share their feelings (happiness, likes and dislikes, anger, etc.) to each one other. And once again, we repeat it: communication is the basis of a long-term and happy marriage.
These are just few tips but the decision is yours. Be who you are, be positive, define what you want and what you do not want and finally choose someone that you can talk with and who has a common interest with you.
认识你自己
如果你想选择一位合适的伴侣,认识你自己这一步相当重要。你必须认识自己。一些人翻遍地球寻找自己的灵魂伴侣,但徒手而归。失败的一个原因便是单身人士没有反求诸己。因此,在与某人陷入爱河之前,在你选择合适的人结婚之前,先要问自己最真实的几个问题:你是谁?你想要什么?你对伴侣的期待是什么?你最喜欢什么?所有这些问题似乎微小,但却重要。只有在回答了这些问题后你才能开始定义自己的身份和欲求。
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