"You're so great -- why don't you have a boyfriend?"
“你这么好,怎么会没有男朋友?”
This misguided compliment, often doled out to young successful women, has given birth to a new thought experiment: If a woman is great and no romantic partner is there to appreciate her, can she still lead a happy and fulfilling life?
人们常常在舆论的误导作用下,将这种恭维话“施舍”给单身成功女性,由此我们提出了一个新的思维实验课题:如果一位女性品貌甚佳,却没有情人来欣赏,她是否仍能生活的快乐而充实呢?
Women often feel bad about being single, despite how satisfying their lives are otherwise.
无论一位女性对生活的其他方面如何满意,单身的感情状况总是会让她感到郁闷。
Turns out, there are a few reasons you might feel that romantic ennui:
实际上,你的“单身厌烦症”可能是出于以下几点原因。
you may not be prioritizing what you really want.
你没有首先考虑自己想要的是什么。
Allowing what other people want for you to cloud your judgement can send you down that dark, "I'm dying alone" spiral. Global surveys have found that cultural norms and expectations are what determine our self-esteem, even if we claim we're above the pressure. The truth is that marriage won't make everyone happier.
服从他人对你的期望,使自己的判断力受到遮蔽,这会使你越来越觉得“我会孤独终老”,在这种想法的泥潭里越陷越深。全球范围内的研究结果显示,我们的自尊心是由文化规范和社会期待所决定的,即使我们声称自己不受这两者影响。事实上,结婚成家并不一定会使人更幸福。
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