What you do always sends signals back to you about who you are. Sure, doing affirmations where you say to yourself that you are confident can help you. But taking the confident actions you want to take over and over again is what really builds your self confidence and a self-image of you being a confident person.
你所做的事能反映出你是个怎样的人。自然,当你暗示自己自信时,也确实能产生积极效果。只有反复不断地采取自信行动,才能真正塑造你的自信心,让你成为一个自信的人。
6. Face your fear.
直面内心恐惧。
I think this is true. It’s easier to live on that “someday…” thought. It’s harder to just take action. To risk looking like a fool. To make mistakes, stumble and not avoid that pain. To take responsibility for your own life.
我觉得这一点很正确:人们很容易陷入“将来某一天……”的思维模式,却很难拿出行动来。请像傻瓜一样去冒险吧,请去犯错误、去碰壁、去经历痛苦吧。你要为你自己的人生负责。
The easier choice can come with a sense of comfort, with a certain level of success, pangs of regret for all the things you never dared to do and a vague sense of being unfulfilled. You wonder about what would have happened if you had taken more action and more chances.
容易的选择能带来舒心和某种程度的成功,但你也将会为所有不敢尝试的事情而感到后悔,你将会感到空虚,你会特别想知道:如果抓住更多机遇、采取更多行动,事情将会怎么样呢?
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