10个改善人际交流能力的小技巧_BEC初级作文

10个改善人际交流能力的小技巧

9. Get Rid of Unnecessary Conversation Fillers

9.去除不必要的会话用语

Um's and ah's do little to improve your speech or everyday conversations. Cut them out to be more persuasive and feel or appear more confident. One way is to start keeping track of when you say words like "um" or "like." You could also try taking your hands out of your pockets or simply relaxing and pausing before you speak. Those silences seem more awkward to you than they do to others, trust us.

“恩”，“啊”对于改善你的演讲或每天的对话来说作用不大。把它们去掉能更有说服力，能让你看起来更加自信。一种方式是观察自己说“恩”或“啊”的时刻。你也可以试着把你的手从口袋里拿出来，或在说话前简单地放松和暂停一下。相信我们，在那些沉默的时刻，你其实比他们要更尴尬。

8. Have a Script for Small Talk and Other Occasions

8.为闲谈和其他对话提前想好内容

Small talk is an art that not many people have mastered. For the inevitable, awkward silences with people you hardly know, it helps to have a plan. The FORD (family, occupation, recreation dreams) method might help you come up with topics to discuss, and you can also turn small talk into conversation by sharing information that could help you and the other person find common ground. Hey, all that small talk could make you happier in the long run.