8. They take responsibility. If you make a mistake, take responsibility for it. Acknowledge it, and don't point the blame at someone else.

8. 他们承担责任。如果你犯错了，那么就为此而承担责任吧。承认它，不要怪责别人推卸责任。

9. They get off their phones. People appreciate undivided attention, because it makes them feel like you're truly listening to them. It makes them feel that you value their presence and time.

9. 他们能够放下手机。人们会欣赏一心一意的关注，因为那样会让人们觉得你真的在倾听他们，真的在重视他们的存在与时间。

10. They don't make comparisons all the time and make it all about them.: Sometimes in an effort to relate to others, you can go overboard with comparisons. When someone tells you about their dog dying, you should listen with concern, because that's what they are seeking. If you chime in with a story of how your own dog died and how you were devastated so you know how they feel, the other person may feel that you're switching the topic back to you.

10. 他们不会总是作比较。有时，为了与他们交往，你可能会在作比较这件事情上走极端。当别人告诉你，他们的宠物狗死了，你应该关切地倾听，因为这就是他们想要的。如果你附和自己的狗是怎么死的故事以及你当时有多么地伤心，来说明你能够理解到他们的感受，他们可能会觉得你在把话题拉向自己。

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