4. Practice

多加尝试。

Just like anything else, you can’t get good at something until you practice it. Take the opportunity, wherever you are, to talk to strangers (yes, I know what your mother said. I say the same thing to my kids). You will probably feel awkward at first. Perhaps even a little bit silly. But you will find that after a while, it becomes almost second nature to talk with people at the store or the park.

和其他事情一样，交朋友也需要“熟能生巧”。不管什么时候，只要有机会就请尝试跟陌生人搭话。（好吧，我知道你老妈告诉过你什么，因为我也跟我家小孩说过不要和陌生人说话。）刚开始你可能会觉得怪怪的，甚至有点蠢不拉几；但过不了多久你会发现，跟商店或公园里的陌生人攀谈几乎成了自来熟的事儿！

5. Find common ground

寻找共同点。

While you’re chatting with someone, pay attention to the things they seem to like — or notice where you are. If you’re at the car parts store, ask about their car interests. If you’re at the farmers’ market, ask if they have a garden. Find out if they have kids, go fishing, whatever. Most likely, you will have something to talk with this new person about.

当你跟人攀谈时，要留心对方可能喜欢什么，或注意一下当时的场合。如果是在汽车零件店，你可以跟对方谈谈车子话题；如果是在菜场，你可以问他是不是自己种菜。你还可以问问对方有没有小孩啊、钓不钓鱼啊之类的，这样你们就能有更多话题谈啦。

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