男人应该如何接近女人,千万不要吹口哨了_BEC初级作文

男人应该如何接近女人,千万不要吹口哨了

It's a very sobering and enlightening experience to watch the barrage of harassment happen. And sadly, since so many of you believe that women provoke violence and even rape based on how they dress -- get this, the woman in the video is wearing a plain T-shirt and jeans. There's no cleavage or midriff or bare leg showing -- she's just a gal walking down the street.

看着这些骚扰接二连三地发生，不仅令人不禁恍然大悟。令人悲哀的是，你们中的很多人认为女人招致暴力甚至是强暴，是因为她们穿的太少，看看这个，视频中的女人穿着普通的T恤和牛仔裤。没有露乳沟，没有露肚脐，没有露大腿，她只是一个走在大街上的姑娘。

The video is compelling, particularly for women. It is uncomfortable to be harassed like this walking down the street, and yes, harassment is exactly what it is. In fact, in many states, it's also illegal.

这个视频是振聋发聩的，特别是对女性来说。走在大街上时，像这样被骚扰是令人不舒服的，是的，这就是骚扰。事实上，在很多州，这也是非法的。

For a long time, I didn't see it that way. Maybe it's because I make a living giving keynotes on leadership and at 45 have grown to be a very confident, extroverted person. Every time a man would say "Hey Beautiful" to me, I'd just look him straight in the eyes, shoot a smile and shout back "Yo what's up" -- which works like a charm, de-sexualizes the whole thing, keeps it Midwestern friendly while leaving the guy speechless that I asserted myself.