As a child of divorce, I grew up wanting a different life. I swore I would never have a family and put them through that mess. I would do whatever it took to stay with my spouse for my children.
我父母离婚了,所以我从小就渴望不一样的生活。我发誓:我决不会让我的家人经历这种困境。我会为了孩子尽可能的不离婚。
One day, when I was running errands with my kids during a particularly horrible rough patch with my husband, I was deep in thought about how to fix our situation. Then I saw mutual friends of ours, who were going through a divorce, were in a gas station parking lot, trading off their kids. Their pain was palpable. After witnessing the way they looked at each other, I thought, that can never be us. I wouldn't be able to bear it.
有段时间我和丈夫特别不合,有一天我正和孩子跑腿买东西,当时的我还在认真思考该如何化解我们的困境。然后,我看到了我俩共同的朋友(他们正在办离婚手续)站在加油站停车场上,互相交换孩子。显而易见,他们是痛苦的。见证他们互看彼此的情景之后,我想,我和爱人永远都不会发生这种情况。我肯定无法忍受这种痛苦。
We dug in our heels for another six years. We tried and tried and ultimately failed to repair our marriage. My ex and I found being together more unbearable than trying to stay under one roof for the kids.
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