2. Set aside your ego
2.将自我放在一边
Mutation of oneself to better fit into a relationship is a necessary sacrifice. It certainly does not mean that you have to give up your personal identity, but if the love you seek will be bound in truth, it is a fact that “to receive much, one must give much.”
要更好地融入一段感情,改变自己是必须做的牺牲。这当然不是说你必须放弃自己的人格,但如果你要寻找的爱真有限制,事实就是“想要得到多些,你必须给予多些。”
Setting aside your ego to explore what is best for the couple versus what is best for the individual will be a daily choice. There is a sweet spot that each couple must find which will give them independence but also a level of healthy co-dependence.
把你的自我放在一边,去探索什么对两人最好,这点对阵什么对个人最好的探索,将会成为每天的选择。每对爱人都必须找到那个最佳地带,会给他们各自独立,以及一定程度的健康共存。
3. Be clear with expectations
3.明确期待
You love yourself, you feel you love another, and the couple you have become has great potential. Did both of you come into the relationship with clear expectations?
你爱自己,你感觉你爱另一个人,且你们两人的关系有很大潜力。你们两人是否对这段关系都有明确的期待呢?
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