Unfortunately, they lead to hard work relationships; and hard work relationships lead to emotional exhaustion and breakdown.

但不幸的是，脾气不好的人会导致感情变得难以维系，而难以维系的感情又会导致情感耗竭和感情破裂。

Better to look for someone sunny and sweet-natured.

最好是找个个性阳光、脾气好的人。

Think about the way a date projects himself on first meeting and beyond. Why would pessimism or negativity be an aphrodisiac?

仔细想想你的约会对象在第一次约会和之后的约会中是怎样表现自己的。为什么悲观消极的情绪会成为一种催情剂？

2. Check the pedigree

了解背景

Obviously, this is simpler with dogs than it is with people, and can't be settled on a first date. But then Rome wasn't built in a day, and nor should relationships be.

显然，了解狗狗的血统明显要比了解一个人的背景要容易得多，而且这不可能在第一次约会时就了解透彻。罗马不是一天建成的，恋爱关系也是如此。

You can listen to the way they talk about parents, family members, and friends.

你可以从他们对父母、家庭成员以及朋友的描述中获取一些相关信息。

If they come across as Billy-no-mates, there is cause for concern.

如果他们给你的印象是朋友寥寥无几，那你就得小心了。

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