If you've been single for a while, friends may take it upon themselves to set you up with 'lovely dates'.

如果你处于感情空窗期有一段时间，你的朋友们可能会为你策划一场美好的约会，主动肩负起给你介绍对象的重任。

Just because they find that date 'lovely' in the context in which they know them doesn't mean you will.

她们认为一场约会是美好的，并不代表对你而言也是一样的。

You wouldn't buy a house just on the say-so of Mrs Bloggs three doors down.

你不会因为住在离你三户远的布洛格斯太太（MrsBloggs）随口说的一句话，就买下一座房子。

You always have to do your own due diligence.

所以，你要认真地考虑问题。

10. Leave the paperwork at home

丢掉幻想

Women are terrible at playing 'Fantasy Future' - they go on a first date and, provided the man isn't an obvious freak or psychopathic monster, they get busy imagining their future life with that person.

女性在幻想美好方面往往很不成功。她们在第一次约会时，只要男性不是一个情绪反复无常的怪人或是精神失常的怪物，接下来，她们开始忙于沉浸在和约会对象未来生活的幻想中。

A first date is not designed to be a marriage contract., it's simply the start of getting to know another person.

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