我们都知道很多婚姻是以痛苦告终的。在结婚50周年聚会上会选择离婚来代替跳舞庆祝。我和布鲁克都意识到有些日子放弃婚姻比不停吵闹要容易得多。但是每次我们都不会放弃彼此。我们彼此坦诚相见,到底哪里让对方失望了。因为坚守婚姻是值得的。
9. Take Initiative For The Benefit Of The Other.
9. 主动为对方付出。
We talk often in our family about whether we're being givers or takers. Are we giving and serving? Or are we only taking and using? I'd argue that life is best lived when you're giving yourself away for the benefit of another.
我们家经常会讨论我们到底属于付出者呢,还是索取者。我们都付出了吗?还是我们都只是在索取而已?我认为最幸福的生活就是你为他人去做出牺牲和付出。
10. Live In Community.
10. 选择社区式的生活方式。
Marriage is hard and messy, but also beautiful and redeeming. Lived in isolation, you may be tempted to give up. But when surrounded with friends and family that know your strengths as well as your struggles, you realize you have.
婚姻艰难又麻烦,但是它同样很美好且有可取之处。自己偏安一隅,你可能会放弃婚姻。但与朋友和家人住得近,他们了解你的生活状态和生活处境,你会发现自己的婚姻确实也有美好之处。
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