9件被忽略的日常小事会导致婚姻危机_BEC初级作文

9件被忽略的日常小事会导致婚姻危机

5. Canceling date night over and over again

5. 一次又一次的取消夜晚约会

Yup, we all have deadlines. We all have draconian bosses breathing down our necks - and yes, there will always be good reason to cancel date night - especially if the sitter lets you down again. But do so at your peril because postponing one-on-one time is symbolic of where your marriage is in your list of priorities. If you'd rather attend a Zumba class than have a glass of wine with your husband, that's a red flag. Your relationship is sacred; treat it as such.

是的，我们都没有时间。我们都有严厉的老板勒紧我们的脖子——是的，这是取消约会的最好借口——尤其，当模特让你失望的时候。但是，这很危险，因为推迟一对一约会是一个信号：你们的婚姻在生命中所处的优先权。如果你参加尊巴舞训练班比与你的丈夫一起干杯更优先，这就是红色警报，你们的关系已经危险了。想办法拯救吧。

6. Paying more attention to your kids than him

6. 对孩子的关注比对他的关注多太多

How many moms do you know who shower their kids with affection and give their husbands a quick pat on the back when he swoops in for a kiss? Remembering to stop and give each other actual physical affection - not just a requisite peck on the cheek - is the sign of a healthy relationship. When you spend day in/day out with someone, it's easy to neglect them. The mundane goings-on of daily life take precedent and by the time you get the kids to bed and collapse on the sofa, showing any kind of affection feels like an extra chore. But here's a secret: Do. It. Anyway. Affection, leading or not leading to sex, cannot be overstated.